How to Apologize without Saying You’re Sorry, by Tony Stoltzfus Apr 19 2010
Apologies are important: ever been in a situation where you got really hurt and the other individual wouldn’t even so much as apologize to you? That’s one of the ultimate snubs: you got hurt, but your life and your feelings mean so little to me that I’m not even going to bother to take the [...]Source: The Christian Coaching Center » Transformational Coaching | Tony Stoltzfus
How Life Purpose Connects with Suffering by Tony Stoltzfus Sep 7 2009
Paul, one of my first coaching clients, engaged me to help him discover a sense of purpose in his life. Several months into the relationship, his teenage son was tragically killed in a car accident. That event completely changed Paul’s focus and his sense of what was meaningful in life. Over the next year, we [...]Source: The Christian Coaching Center » Transformational Coaching | Tony Stoltzfus
Ministry Risk Factors — How Do You Stack Up? by Tony Stoltzfus Aug 12 2009
The 18 risk factors for pastors shown below are given with statistics that show where pastors are at today. You may be surprised or even shocked at some of the realities of ministry leadership. But this doesn’t have to be you. Make the choice to build a life of character and excellence that will let [...]Source: The Christian Coaching Center » Transformational Coaching | Tony Stoltzfus
How God Gets Our Attention by Tony Stoltzfus May 11 2009
Because coaches engage people at the growth edges and challenging places in life, they often encounter situations where God is trying to get a leader’s attention and the leader isn’t getting it. Understanding some of the patterns God uses to get our attention can help you understand where in the process a leader is [...]Source: The Christian Coaching Center » Transformational Coaching | Tony Stoltzfus
Working Yourself to Death, by Tony Stoltzfus Apr 6 2009
How much work is too much? Work is labor, to be sure; but if it is sucking the life out of you, something is wrong. Here are some tips for the client who is wondering if s/he is overdoing it...Source: The Christian Coaching Center » Transformational Coaching | Tony Stoltzfus
Coaching People Out of Flat Lives, by Tony Stoltzfus Mar 25 2009
Years ago I read a well-known book on the life of King David that really made an impact on me—just not one that I think the author intended! While David is probably my favorite Biblical character, I wasn’t getting much out of the book until I started to tune into the author’s point of view. [...]Source: The Christian Coaching Center » Transformational Coaching | Tony Stoltzfus
The Conversation in Your Head Jan 29 2009
We’ve all listened and asked questions since we were toddlers. It’s just that most of us have never approached listening and asking as disciplines, to be systematically learned, practiced and refined. There are lots of listening techniques you can to communicate to another person that you are paying attention-leaning forward, having an open posture, making [...]Source: The Christian Coaching Center » Transformational Coaching | Tony Stoltzfus
Coaching Leaders in Transition by Tony Stoltzfus Jan 28 2009
Walking with leaders through transitions draws on a coach's skill in helping leaders discern God's true agenda in a time that may call for equal parts letting go and getting on with life. New, exciting opportunities come to capable leaders in transition -- and the rush of taking on a new challenge seems especially appealing when what we were doing before has come to a frustrating end...Source: The Christian Coaching Center » Transformational Coaching | Tony Stoltzfus
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The Monster that Ate Your Calling + Web Offer | Coach22 Newsletter
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Dream Manager Review + Overcoming Life Purpose Traps | Coach22 Newsletter
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Christmas Deal + What's Coming in 2010 | Coach22 Newsletter
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Navigating to Your Call + Christmas Deals | Coach22 Newsletter
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Stop Coping and Start Living + Missions Coaching Silent Auction | Coach22 Newsletter
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