These coaching games and training aids are great for spicing up a workshop or to set the table for some fun, significant conversations with family and friends.
Coaching the Heart Bundle
Coaching the Heart is more than regular coaching which often relies on actions plans and behavior modification. Coaching the Heart is life-changing because it invites Jesus to speak to the desires that drive behavior bringing lasting change out of desires fulffilled. Our Coaching the Heart bundle gives you all the tools you need to touch people's hearts and emotions in fun and engaging ways.

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TableTopics: Dinner Party
Questions to Start Great Conversations
4" Acrylic Cube, 135 cards
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Here's a great conversational game for sharing with friends--or the coach in your life! Each TableTopics set includes 135 question cards in a sleek acrylic cube. Use these ice-breaker questions to liven up a party, foster significant conversations, or just have fun. Pick a card, ask the question and let the conversation begin!

The Dinner Party Set is perfect for breaking the ice and getting your guests sharing and laughing with each other.

Price $25.00

Turning Off the Conversation in Your Head

From the book Leadership Coaching by Tony Stoltzfus

Have you ever had a conversation where half-way through you realized the other person wasnít really listening? Sometimes we get the feeling that others are smiling and nodding while we are talking, but their minds are on something else entirely.

Now letís turn the tables: if you feel that way sometimes when talking to others, it is likely that they sometimes feel the same lack of listening when they are talking to you! How do you become aware of it when you arenít listening well? Here are four warning signs, along with a rationale for why each one might be happening:

  • We interrupt a lot. We think our thoughts are more right or more important than the other personís.
  • We are distracted by the environment. This often happens in groups: while we are listening to one person, the other half of our attention is focused on scanning the room or looking for the person we really want to talk to.
  • There are no pauses in the conversation. Instead of fully tuning into the other person, we are using the time they are speaking to frame our reply. So as soon as theyíre finished speaking, weíre ready to jump in.

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TableTopics: Family
by TableTopics
4" Acrylic Cube, 135 cards

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Here's a great conversational game for your family or gift for the coach in your life! TableTopics are incisive conversation-starter questions designed to help take everyday conversations to a deeper level. Each set includes 135 question cards in a beautifully-made acrylic cube. Pick a card, ask the question and let the fun begin!

The award winning "Family" set uses age-appropriate questions to help kids and adults connect at bedtime, over meals, or wherever you want an interesting conversation!

Price $25.00
Desire Photo Cards
by Tony Stoltzfus
32 cards, box, instructions (downloadable)
5.5" x 8.5" cards

Both a coaching aid and a tool for group learning fun, the Desire Photo Cards effectively tap the emotional brain to reveal your deepest longings. Each large-format card (there are 32 in all) includes a carefully-selected color photo of one of the 16 desires on the front, with the twisted desire on the rear in black and white (to make them easy to sort). Using photos instead of words speaks the language of the emotional brain, making it easier to tune into feelings and desires. And it's a great way to stimulate authentic conversation and self-discovery in groups. A free, downloadable instruction booklet provides eleven learning games and coaching exercises that employ the cards.

Price $24.99* Read More to see Qty Pricing
Questions for Jesus Game
54 cards, instructions, acrylic case and timer

The Questions for Jesus Game makes heart-level encounters with Jesus fun! Simply ask Jesus an intimate question, listen for one minute (by the included timer), and then get ready to be delighted as everyone shares the amazing, touching, revelatory things Jesus says! It's easy to hear, because you are asking him about the thing he most wants to talk about: your relationship. You'll ask questions like:

  • "Jesus, what is heaven giving me a standing ovation for today?"
  • "What do you remember about the day I gave my heart to you?"
  • "How is a hug in heaven better than one on earth?"
  • "Jesus, what do you tell the angels that you like about me?"

There are four categories of questions (200 in all) for hours of fun: Desire Fulfilled, For Kids, Offbeat, and Heaven. It's perfect for parties with a purpose, small group encounters, or even to use at the dinner table instead of a perfunctory mealtime prayer.

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Desire Discovery Cards
by Tony Stoltzfus
54 cards, instruction booklet, case

This fun self-discovery tool helps people identify and describe their feelings and follow those emotions to key memories, beliefs and core desires. It's a great way to stimulate enjoyable, authentic conversation. Housed in a transparent case, the set includes:

  • 16 - Emotion Cards, describing eight positive and eight negative feelings
  • 16 - Desire Cards, each describing a core desire
  • 16 - Twisted Desire Cards, showing how true desires look when distorted
  • 6 - Question Cards, used to help players connect with desires, emotions, memories and beliefs
A 16-page instruction booklet includes 10 games and exercises for use in groups, team-building or one-on-one coaching.
Price $15.99* Read More to see Qty Pricing
Listen to My Life
Maps for Recognizing and Responding to God in My Story
By Sibyl Towner and Sharon Swing
40 pages, 11" x 17" format
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Using coaching questions and life purpose principles married to historical Christian spiritual practices like the practice of the Examen of Concsciousness, this unique life purpose workbook helps you discover God's hand in your life story. Built around eight full-color visual maps you record reflections on, Listen to My Life creates a picture of your calling journey where you actually see the interconnections and meanings in your story.

The book includes eight key maps: My Life Now, My Life Story, Peak Experiences, Valley Experiences, Reviewing My Days, Desires & Longings, Life Giving Rhythms and Following Forward. A Facilitator's Guide makes offering a workshop or class using the material a snap.

Price $39.99
Questions for Jesus Poster
by Tony Stoltzfus
18" x 24", frame not included

This poster is a great training aid if you are presenting Questions for Jesus material--or a perfect reminder for where you have your devotions of how to pray your desires. There are five simple rules for asking Questions for Jesus:

  • Ask in Faith...
    Pray in accordance with what scripture has already revealed. We don't pray, "Jesus, do you love me?" but instead, "Jesus, what do you love about me?"
  • for Desire Fulfilled...
    We are praying for a specific desire, like love, security, peace, or recognition.
  • in Relationship...
    Instead of asking for a thing or outcome in this world to fill our desire, we ask Jesus to fill it with himself.
  • by a Rhema...
    The experiential, spoken word touches desires in ways the Logos (scripture) can't.
  • from a Good God.
    He's the one who longs to fill your desires. This isn't about what you can do for him, but what he can do for you.
  • Praying in accordance with these five principles can change your devotional life forever!

Price $21.99
The Calling Journey Poster
by Tony Stoltzfus


The Calling Journey fills a vital need for coaches by mapping out the progression of stages and transitions God moves us through on the road to our call. This path includes predictable mountains to scale and painful, disorienting valleys all leaders must navigate to fulfill their destiny. Each stage has a unique growth agenda and is beautifully displayed on this poster.

The Calling Journey Poster Is a presenters tool that will provide a powerful visual aid in a classroom or workshop setting. It is an exact replica of the picture found in The Calling Journey.

Price $39.99
Living from the Heart Flipbook
by Tony Stoltzfus
Spiral bound, 18 color pages, clear plastic cover

This new resource puts eight key MetaFormation coaching tools at your fingertips. Its a great aid for in-person coaching! For instance, if you want to identify the desire behind a behavior, simply find the right page and stand your flipbook up on the table up like a tent, and you'll have an easy step-by-step guide facing you while the person across the table views a color graphic of the desire wheel.

Stop scribbling on napkins, and use these professional, full-color diagrams to explain the heart diagram, coaching the heart, identifying emotions, emotional memories, drilling down to beliefs or desires, and praying your desire. Its a great way to introduce heart engaging to your coachees and build your skills at the same time.

Price $14.99* Read More to see Qty Pricing